I started asking God for a repentant heart. And God, who answers prayer, responded. Shipwrecked on the rocks of a difficult relationship, I had to face reality. I had failed. I was incapable of truly loving someone who made life hard for me. God convicted me of my sin and gave me a contrite heart.
Source: M. Basilea Schlink - Repentance: The Joy-Filled Life, p. 16