"We have to forgive him ... and we will"

On May 13, 1993, five Amish children were killed by a speeding auto near Fredericksburg, Ohio.  The auto was driven by a young man, Eric Bache, who showed no remorse for his action in the days that followed.  After the funeral, an elder of the community, Henry Burkholder, said:  "We could take it a lot easier if he would feel sorry.  It's a little harder to forgive since he doesn't seem upset.  But we have to forgive him.  And we will."

Source: Henry Burkholder  -  Elder of the Amish Community in Fredericksburg, Ohio, quoted by the New York Times, 17 May 1993, as reported in Peter Schmiechen's "Christ the Reconciler: A Theology for Opposites, Differences, and Enemies", p. 112